People with Borderline Personality Disorder uhtreated or not successfully treated cannot, will not, do not and have not loved you. People with BPD do not know how to love or attach to you because they do not know the "lost self" within BPD. People with BPD have no self from which to relate to others. People with BPD are not capable of loving you.
They do not know how to receive your love and they are grappling with the push/pull of the approach/avoidance conflict. Borderlines have a disorganized attachment style that really means untreated they don't know how to attach. People with BPD have no object constancy.
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