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BPD Women Menopause Aging Losing the Currency of Beauty Does perimenopause and menopause in women with BPD cause their BPD to "flare up?" If not recovered and healed prior to perimenopause or menopau...

BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini? A commenter asks how could my BPD Ex be fine in a relationship for 4 years and suddenly be so unstable? Is a person with BPD stab...

Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy Borderlines are not relationship worthy. They lack a self, have no object constancy and have relational and communication deficits. People with BPD feel very u...

BPD Breakup Ghost or Discard Is Not Your Fault BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard is not your fault. People with suspected BPD, diagnosed BPD untreated (or not fully treated) can't stop the ghosting o...

To Heal From BPD Discard Go No Contact BPD relationships begin with idealization. You aren't as seen and it's really not as much about you as it sure feels like. BPD relationships will rupture. Stayi...

BPD Discard - Keeping The Door Open For Contact ? BPD Discard. Been discarded or ghosted and leaving to door open for a BPD Ex to contact you with or with or without responding? Do you want to hear f...

BPD Relationship Rollercoaster Causes Codependent Rumination Need For Closure Blocking Recovery BPD relationship rollercoaster causes Codependent rumination and need for closure to be so strong that ...

Borderline Projection Through an Eternal Victim Lens Borderline Projection onto friends, partners, Ex's, etc comes from his or her eternal victim lens and persona. The false self exists to protect th...

Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependency Can two people both be Codependent in a relationship years after each had a BPD or NPD relationship with a...

Borderline Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles Borderline's mixed signals and Codependent fantasy bonds.

Borderline Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles Borderline’s mixed signals and Codependent fantasy bonds. Borderlines in relationships give endless mixed signals like telling you how much ...

Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - Why pw/BPD Get More Than Average Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - why people with BPD get more tattoos and/or piercings than non-Borderlines. A commenter ask...