Videos

Borderline & Codependent “Dance” For Control Borderline & Codependent “dance” for control is at the heart of trauma bonds. Both the person with BPD and the person with Codependency, consciously and i...

BPD Lies & Deception Uncover the complexities of relationships with individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD). I explore the cycle of false promises, deception, projection, and devaluati...

Ghosted By A BPD? It's Abuse, Not Love Discover the truth about betrayal and abuse in BPD relationships. Learn how BPD ghosting and discard are not love, but forms of abuse, contributing to loss of s...

BPD, Codependency & Trauma Bonds BPD, Codependency and trauma bonds are what make it so difficult for people with Codependency to leave the person with Borderline Personality. ajmahari.ca/sessions ...

Want a BPD Ex Back? Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions Want a BPD Ex back? It's the fantasy bond and wanting answers to unanswered questions. Questions that most (especially untreated) with Borderli...

BPD “No Contact” Limbo BPD “no contact” limbo is the painful anxiety producing place - experience of - being no contact but no full no contact and then having contact with a BPD Ex often driven by co...

BPD Breakup Limbo BPD breakup limbo is that painful, anxiety-producing, experience of a felt “place” trying to recontact a BPD Ex and/or hoping to be re-contacted by them. ajmahari.ca/sessions It c...

BPD Toxicity vs Positive Qualities BPD toxicity vs positive traits - cognitive dissonance - I love or loved him or her and they had some really positive qualities. Dilemma of false hope and denial. ...

Worrying About a BPD Keeps You Stuck Worrying about a person with BPD can keep you stuck focused on them and continuing to abandon yourself. ajmahari.ca/sessions Having too much empathy and/or comp...

Reactive Abuse to a BPD Reactive abuse toward a girlfriend or boyfriend, husband or wife with BPD happens when you are losing yourself and way over ability to cope and your boundaries and limits. a...

“Waiting” for “BPD Remission” Won’t Save Relationships The reality of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and its core traits' impact on relationships. I challenge the myth of remission. Codepende...

Ghosted? BPD Using You? BPD ghosting, discarding, and cold behavior in relationships. The importance of identifying these patterns, the impact of financial motives, and navigating the confusing signa...