Videos

BPD On/Off Relationship: No Fixing It The endless toxic and painful complexities of relationships with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and people with Codependency. I delve into spiraling and p...

BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work? In a BPD on/off relationship? Are you wondering, can I change, like heal some Codependency, and have more energy and tolerance to make a BPD re...

BPD Fake Apologies Explore the complexities of relationships and BPD as I dissect the ultimatum's impact on an BPD apology "sincerity". Discover the dynamics at play when expectations and conditions ...

BPD Discard No Return To Cycle Many with BPD when they discard they don't return to the cycle of hoovering you or giving you any way of reverse hoovering them. Many with Borderline Personality will j...

BPD Scam - Now I am Who you Wanted & You Can’t Have Me Often in taking child-like painful punishment and revenge on you the Borderline, in overcompensating deceit, puts you in the one down position o...

Codependency Trap: Why Do You Keep Going Back?! Delving into the dynamics of codependency and trauma bonds. I pose challenging questions to help you become more aware and to understand more about. w...

BPD Unpredictable Changeability I explore the complexities of **BPD relationships** and the challenges of Borderline incongruence, impulsivity, and emotional triggers. I delve into Borderline mood la...

BPD Hoovers: When Safe To Reply? BPD Hoovers, often waited for, often wanted, dies anyone stop to consider if it’s safe to reply? ajmahari.ca/sessions Most all BPD Hoovers are about what the person...

BPD Apologies Don’t Mean Any Change BPD apologies don't mean any change. Often people with BPD will apologize - say the words you tell them you want and need to hear. But do people with Borderline Pe...

BPD Abyss - Why BPD’s Hurt You The BPD abyss of emptiness at the center of otherwise constantly whirling emotional overwhelm all projected out onto “other” in attempts to survive is the why of BPD ab...

BPD Core is Engulfing Feelings BPD Core is Engulfing Feelings that need to be disavowed to try and survive. This reality for people with BPD is no excuse for abuse and each person needs to take the...

BPD Attenuated Connection Capability At Zero BPD attenuated connection capability is at zero for many with Borderline Personality Disorder due to the primal arrest in development that is the loss of ...