Videos

Explore the complexities of relationships and faith in this thought-provoking discussion. We delve into challenging beliefs and offer compassionate perspectives on difficult choices. Discover understa...

Explore the complexities of responsibility in unplanned pregnancies, especially when BPD is involved. We discuss the risks, costs, and potential impact on children in toxic relationships. Understand c...

Explore faith and healing as we reflect on understanding God's love amidst complex human experiences. Discover how to reclaim your power and navigate pain in your recovery journey. Join us as we discu...

Join us as we explore the challenging lessons learned from trauma bonds and cognitive dissonance. We delve into limerence, rumination, and the quest for closure after relationships with individuals wi...

BPD Core: Disorganized Attachment At core disorganized attachment in Borderline Personality Disorder is caused by arrested emotional development by or before the age of 2 years old. Disorganized atta...

The Borderline Mother Partner Drama and The Needs Competition Many women who become mothers (especially untreated) expect you, their partner, to meet all their needs and will be jealous and/or angry,...

PW/BPD Are You Important To Them? Are you important to the person with BPD in your life? Do they care or even “get it” when they rage at you, or give you the silent treatment, when they ghost you, an...

Borderlines and Your Feelings Borderlines don’t care about your feelings. They are wrapped up in their own feelings like a young emotional child. Does reality ever kick in after the ghost, the silen...

One Golden Rule - BPD Relationship Could Work Out The one golden rule that could mean a BOD dating relationship (not so much marriage) could work out involves the person with Borderline Personality D...

Fantasy of BPD Idealization The fantasy of BPD idealization has already been interjected and is believed by Codependents before the BPD major split to devaluation that ends the idealization phase - o...

BPD Codependent Gap There is a gap in the middle of a BPD - Codependent relationship that cannot be bridged. The heart of this gap is at core the Borderline’s emotional dysregulation, lack of logic, ...

“No Contact” Limbo With BPD Ex Many people with a Borderline Ex, generally, and specifically, so many clients I’ve worked with, in the beginning, often believe they have gone no contact. Reading text...