If you are in any type of relationship with an untreated person with Borderline Personality Disorder, they will abuse you. What you might hope for as love is actually traumatizing abuse. You need to focus on yourself and any children
BPD Dynamics of Abuse Cycles & Codependent Reactions
In all of this complexity of the dynamics of Borderline Personality abuse cycles and the reactions of people with Codependency it is a logical fallacy or a Raven’s Paradox to try to equate or “equalize” each person’s part in the