Season 2

Tuesday, October 18, 2022 BPD Ex Remember The Good Times?

Does Your BPD Ex Remember The Good Times? A.J. Mahari's answer, the explanation and how staying invested in this answer is self-abandonment and going ...

Monday, September 12, 2022 Borderline Inability To Communicate Part 2 Tennis Anyone?

Borderline Inability To Communicate Part 2 Tennis Anyone? A.J. Mahari in Part 2 of the impossibility of communicating in BPD relationships to people w...

Monday, September 12, 2022 Borderline Core Communication Deficits No Ability to Repair Or Give Closure to Any BPD Episode

Borderline Core Communication Deficits No Ability to Repair Or Give Closure to Any BPD Episode. Untreated people with BPD have no emotional maturity t...

Sunday, September 11, 2022 Reverse Hoovers of The Borderline After Being Ghosted

Reverse Hoovers of The Borderline After Being Ghosted only increase your pain after a BPD Relationship Breakup. The path to surviving the BPD Relation...

Sunday, September 11, 2022 BPD Splitting More Devaluation Less Idealization In BPD Relationships

BPD Splitting More Devaluation Less Idealization In BPD Relationships - A.J. Mahari goes deep into BPD Splitting revealing that there is no continued ...

Saturday, September 10, 2022 Borderline Idealization Phase Its Not Logical or Targeted

A commenter to my Youtube channel left a comment as to his theory orbelief that there is so much more involved in and happening for people with suspec...

Sunday, September 4, 2022 BPD Relationship Cycle - 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat Impossibility

BPD Relationship Cycle 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat - The "Archetypal" stages and phases that continually repeat and re-occur in repetition compulsion...

Thursday, September 1, 2022 Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You?

Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You? A.J. Mahari explains how you are not seen and heard in idealization either. The intense a...

Wednesday, August 31, 2022 Borderlines and Narcissists - Codependent’s Focus On Cluster B's Is Not The Way of Healing

Borderlines and Narcissists - Codependent’s Focus On Cluster B's Is Not The Way of Healing. A.J. Mahari explains why continuing to focus son a borderl...

Thursday, August 25, 2022 BPD Projection and Projective Identification Not Empathy

Misunderstanding and myths about what is and what isn't people with Borderline Personality having empathy. BPD Projection and Projective Identificatio...

Wednesday, August 24, 2022 Borderline "Love" Why It Just Ends

Borderline "Love" Why it Just Ends - A.J. Mahari explains why those for loved ones or Ex's of someone with Borderline Personality why their love can j...

Sunday, August 21, 2022 Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't Stay In Treatment

Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't They Stay In Treatment and what this means for you and relationships.

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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