Season 7

Saturday, February 22, 2025 BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini?

BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini?A commenter asks how could my BPD Ex be fine in a relationship for 4 years and su...

Sunday, February 9, 2025 Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy

Borderlines Are Not Relationship WorthyBorderlines are not relationship worthy. They lack a self, have no object constancy and have relational and com...

Sunday, January 26, 2025 BPD Relationship Rollercoaster Causes Codependent Rumination Need For Closure Bl

BPD Relationship Rollercoaster Causes Codependent Rumination Need For Closure Blocking RecoveryBPD relationship rollercoaster causes Codependent rumin...

Monday, January 20, 2025 Borderline Projection Through an Eternal Victim Lens

Borderline Projection Through an Eternal Victim LensBorderline Projection onto friends, partners, Ex's, etc comes from his or her eternal victim lens ...

Saturday, January 18, 2025 Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependency

Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-DependencyThis is Epidsode 9 From my Codependency Surviving Clus...

Thursday, December 26, 2024 Borderlines Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles

Borderline Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond CyclesBorderline’s mixed signals and Codependent fantasy bonds. Borderlines in relationships g...

Thursday, December 26, 2024 Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings Why pw BPD Get More Than Average

Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - Why pw/BPD Get  More Than AverageBorderlines Tattoos and Piercings - why people with BPD get more tattoos and/or p...

Sunday, December 15, 2024 BPD Relationship Ruptures Are All Relationships Just Hard Work?

BPD Relationship Ruptures Are All Relationships Just Hard Work?BPD relational ruptures and an answer to a Codependent commentor's question are BPD and...

Monday, December 2, 2024 Borderlines Having Children - The Heartbreak of BPD Ex Loss or Co-Parenting

Borderlines Having Children - The Heartbreak of BPD Ex Loss or Co-ParentingBorderlines having children wound them (more often than not) and the heartb...

Monday, November 25, 2024 Borderlines Don't Make You Sacrifice Yourself

Borderlines Don't Make You Sacrifice YourselfBorderlines (or a BPD/NPD person) doesn't make you sacrfice yourselves as Codependents. A.J. Mahari adds ...

Saturday, November 23, 2024 BPD Triggers Explained & Why They Are So Crazy-Making

BPD Triggers Explained & Why They Are So Crazy-MakingBPD triggers are explained and why they are so crazy-making. What you really need to know abo...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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