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Saturday, June 21, 2025 BPD Sudden Shocking Discard Ex is Alone Now What Can You Do?

BPD Sudden Shocking Discard BPD Ex is All Alone Now What Can You Do?BPD sudden shocking discard is devastating and leaves many an Ex of someone with B...

Saturday, June 21, 2025 Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent

Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is CodependentBPD Ex wanting to make amends to Borderline is codependent. Whether you are struggling with alcoholis...

Thursday, June 19, 2025 Does Going No Contact Make Your BPD Ex Think About You?

Does Going No Contact Make Your BPD Ex Think About You?Does going no contact after a BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard, make your Ex with BPD think ab...

Friday, June 13, 2025 BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying

BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD LyingWhen people with BPD (usually untreated) are called out their abusive behaviour, words, actions, the...

Sunday, June 1, 2025 Wanting a BPD Ex Back The Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions

Want a BPD Ex Back? Fantasy Bond & Unanswered QuestionsWant a BPD Ex back? It's the fantasy bond and wanting answers to unanswered questions. Ques...

Monday, May 26, 2025 Unknowingly Loving a Borderline Suddenly Ghosted

Unknowingly Loving a Borderline Suddenly GhostedUnknowingly loving a Borderline and suddenly ghosted? Wondering what on earth just happened? Maybe you...

Tuesday, May 13, 2025 BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?

BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?In a BPD on/off relationship? Are you wondering, can I change, like heal some Codependency, and...

Thursday, May 8, 2025 BPD Disconnectedness and Inability To Relate

Borderline Disconnectedness and Inability To RelateAs a BPD survivor, I recovered almost 40 years ago, I explain the deep and extremely pervasive abys...

Monday, May 5, 2025 Want BPD Ex Back and Holding Out Hope?

Want BPD Ex Back Holding Out Hope?Are you holding out hope that you can get your BPD Ex back? Like so many people, most with Codependence, many Ex's o...

Thursday, May 1, 2025 BPD Emotional Arrested Development & Object Other Relating

BPD Arrested Emotional Development and Object Other RelatingBPD arrested emotional development and Object Other Relating. For more people than not wit...

Wednesday, April 23, 2025 Lost Yourself To A Borderline?

Lost Yourself To A Borderline?Have you lost yourself to Borderline? A partner, Ex partner, girlfriend or boyfriend, or person close to you with Border...

Monday, March 17, 2025 BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding

BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy BondingBPD idealization in the beginning of a significant other relationshipcreates a fantasy bond. People with ...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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