Videos

Codependency: It's Real, Deep, Formidable (And It's Got You) What you need to know about the formidable nature of codependency and its profound impact on people's lives and relationships. I discuss r...

BPD Recycling Relationships: Why 'Next Time' Never Works Unpack the reality of recycling relationships, especially with people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). I explore BPD triggers, thei...

Holding Out Hope Get BPD Ex Back? Waiting For Them To Force You Into Acceptance? Are you holding out hope that you can get your BPD Ex back? Like so many people, most with Codependence, many Ex's of ...

BPD Hoovering Red Flags Be mindful of the not-so-subtle red flags in Borderline's hoovering attempts and learn how to recognize manipulative phrases and deceptive motivations. I explore healing from ...

Borderline Ex Hoovering & Ghosting: The REAL Reason Why! Uncover the reasons behind borderline exes' hoovering and ghosting behavior. I explain their need for emotional support, shifting mood states,...

BPD Hoover of Ex "On Again" BPD Ghosted Ex 24 Hours Later BPD Hoover to get back with you, only to ghost you again. It's all-too-common. Borderlines hoovering are trying to meet their own needs. They...

BPD Favorite Person For most people the person with BPD whose favorite person you may be, doesn’t attach to you or love you. A favorite person of a Borderline can be a partner or Ex,but is not limit...

You as BPD’s Vending Machine Ever feel like an emotional and/or financial vending machine or ATM for a person with Borderline Personality? ajmahari.ca/sessions People with BPD (especially untreated...

You vs Borderline “Object Other” Understanding the complexities of BPD relationships! I dive into BPD uncertainty, blame, and devaluation, revealing how BPD perceptions distort reality. ajmahari.c...

BPD Sees You as "Object Other" More Than Who You Are Explore the challenges of relationships with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). We delve into the lack of validation, cognitive distortions, ...

BPD Connection? They Don't Invest Feelings In You People with BPD don't really consistently connect to you. They don't actually invest their feelings in you. You are, more often than not, an Object O...

Unlock the secrets of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)! I explain BPD libidinal energy and its self-referential nature in BPD, highlighting the internal turmoil and challenges in connecting with...