Videos

BPD Scam - Now I am Who you Wanted & You Can’t Have Me Often in taking child-like painful punishment and revenge on you the Borderline, in overcompensating deceit, puts you in the one down position o...

Codependency Trap: Why Do You Keep Going Back?! Delving into the dynamics of codependency and trauma bonds. I pose challenging questions to help you become more aware and to understand more about. w...

BPD Unpredictable Changeability I explore the complexities of **BPD relationships** and the challenges of Borderline incongruence, impulsivity, and emotional triggers. I delve into Borderline mood la...

BPD Hoovers: When Safe To Reply? BPD Hoovers, often waited for, often wanted, dies anyone stop to consider if it’s safe to reply? ajmahari.ca/sessions Most all BPD Hoovers are about what the person...

BPD Apologies Don’t Mean Any Change BPD apologies don't mean any change. Often people with BPD will apologize - say the words you tell them you want and need to hear. But do people with Borderline Pe...

BPD Abyss - Why BPD’s Hurt You The BPD abyss of emptiness at the center of otherwise constantly whirling emotional overwhelm all projected out onto “other” in attempts to survive is the why of BPD ab...

BPD Core is Engulfing Feelings BPD Core is Engulfing Feelings that need to be disavowed to try and survive. This reality for people with BPD is no excuse for abuse and each person needs to take the...

BPD Attenuated Connection Capability At Zero BPD attenuated connection capability is at zero for many with Borderline Personality Disorder due to the primal arrest in development that is the loss of ...

Why Understanding BPD Isn't Enough Understanding BPD: Why do Borderlines do what they do? Go beyond simple explanations and discover the deeper motivations behind BPD behaviors. Intellectual understa...

BPD Survivor's Deep Explanation of BPD Disconnectedness and Inability To Relate As a BPD survivor, I recovered almost 40 years ago, I explain the deep and extremely pervasive abyss of Borderline Pers...

Unpack complex relationship dynamics. I address a male codependent and his victimhood while calling out his entitlement. Discover financial red flags & the need for personal responsibility regardless ...

A Codependent Using A BPD Girlfriend This one particular commenter made it clear that he is a Codependent who is using his BPD Girlfriend because she has resources and he doesn't. His BPD Girlfriend ...