Videos

One Golden Rule - BPD Relationship Could Work Out The one golden rule that could mean a BOD dating relationship (not so much marriage) could work out involves the person with Borderline Personality D...

Fantasy of BPD Idealization The fantasy of BPD idealization has already been interjected and is believed by Codependents before the BPD major split to devaluation that ends the idealization phase - o...

BPD Codependent Gap There is a gap in the middle of a BPD - Codependent relationship that cannot be bridged. The heart of this gap is at core the Borderline’s emotional dysregulation, lack of logic, ...

“No Contact” Limbo With BPD Ex Many people with a Borderline Ex, generally, and specifically, so many clients I’ve worked with, in the beginning, often believe they have gone no contact. Reading text...

Futility Of BPD Relationship Recycling There are very severe consequences of Loving a person with Borderline Personality Disorder. The consequences of loving a person with Borderline Personality D...

BPD Discards How & Why Just Gone How and why can a person with BPD just get gone? How and why the Borderline discards. ajmahari.ca/sessions AJ Mahari explains how and why people with BPD discard ...

Fantasy of Belief in BPD "Love" Uncover the truth about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and “love” in relationships. I delve into the challenges individuals with Codependency in the fantasy of...

Reverse Hoovering BPD Ex? In this Codependent commenter’s case the breakup was fairly mutual between him and his BPD Ex, unlike so many ghosting or discards. Ge chose to reverse Hoover his BPD Ex. If...

BPD Insatiably Cheating & Discards People with BPD cheat, monkey branch and often discard you (many partners) because they are insatiable. Borderlines can’t ever get enough. Borderline insatiably fue...

BPD Discard & Codependent Avoidance of “Now” Are you avoiding a BPD Breakup? Are you wanting your BPD Ex back or to be friends in the future? Are hanging on to false hope? Has your BPD discarded you ...

BPD Hoovers Not About You Explore BPD Hoovers which are often non-romantic 'hoovers' by individuals with BPD making it seem as though it’s romantic in various scenarios. ajmahari.ca/sessions I d...

BPD Disorganized Attachment & Relational Impossibility BPD Disorganized attachment is central to all the dysfunction in BPD relationships. I explain a core reason that people with BPD can’t relate in...