Videos

Sunday, April 13, 2025 BPD & Codependent Dynamics in Toxic Relationships

BPD & Codependent Dynamics in Toxic Relationships Both people with Borderline Personality and people with Codependency have similar dependency needs that neither is consciously aware of. Are you som...

Saturday, April 12, 2025 BPD Mother & BPD and/or Codependent Adult Child

BPD Mother & BPD and/or Codependent Adult Child When a child has a mother with BPD, especially untreated, there is a 5 times average of increased chance that he or she may fit the criteria first BPD ...

Saturday, April 12, 2025 Borderlines & Codependents

Borderlines & Codependents Borderlines use Codependents but what are Codependents doing in the trauma bond? ajmahari.ca/sessions These relationships are impossible and extremely toxic - why do pe...

Friday, April 11, 2025 Decoding BPD Out of Sight Out of Mind

Decoding BPD Out of Sight Out of Mind Unlock the secrets of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) in relationships! I explain the truth about “BPD Love” and, BPD ‘out of sight, out of mind' relation...

Friday, April 11, 2025 BPD Relating Make it Make Sense?

BPD Relating Make it Make Sense? The complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and relationships and why you can't really ever make it make sense. In this short and its accompanying video...

Friday, April 11, 2025 Missing Stage in BPD Relationships You NEED To Know!

Missing Stage in BPD Relationships You NEED To Know! I explain the missing stage of **BPD relationships** focusing on the challenges faced by untreated people with BPD and people closest to them. I ...

Friday, April 11, 2025 BPD Breakups: Why So Painful?

BPD Breakups: Why So Painful? Explore why breakups with someone with BPD can be so painful. I explain the lack of closure, attachment trauma, and repetition compulsions that contribute to BPD relati...

Friday, April 11, 2025 Escape BPD Toxic Love: Trauma Bonds & Your Path to Freedom!

Escape BPD Toxic Love: Trauma Bonds & Your Path to Freedom! Explore the challenges of leaving toxic relationships with a person with BPD and understanding trauma bonds and Codependents’ need to break...

Thursday, April 10, 2025 BPD No Win In Relationships

BPD No Win In Relationships Feeling unheard by a Person with BPD? Like you can't win, no matter what you do? They just don’t listen to your concerns. They don’t take personal responsibility. You are ...

Friday, April 4, 2025 Loving a pw/BPD A One Way Street

Loving a pw/BPD A One Way Street Loving a pw/BPD A One Way Street because in these toxic, unhealthy trauma bonded relationships people with codependency walk on eggshells over give try to caretake a...

Friday, April 4, 2025 BPD Breakup & Codependent Choice Points

BPD Breakup & Codependent Choice Points BPD Breakup & Codependent Choice Points are difficult to gain awareness about. Why and how people (predominantly) get into significant other relationships with...

Friday, April 4, 2025 BPD Lies About Therapy?

BPD Lies About Therapy? Why do people with BPD lie so often “promising” they will get help, get into therapy, and then not follow through? ajmahari.ca/sessions #BPDrefusetherapy #BPDlies #BPDresist...