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BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding BPD idealization in the beginning of a significant other relationship creates a fantasy bond. People with BPD, not having any stable sense of self, are i...

Can You Stay Friends With a BPD Ex? Can you stay friends with a BPD Ex? Why would you want to, in most cases? Some people with BPD can be better friends than significant others but a high percentage ...

Borderline Betrayal - Its Insidious Impact on You Borderline betrayal and its negative, painful impact on you. Anyone close to any person with BPD will experience Borderline Betrayal and the very rea...

BPD Awareness Can't Save Relationships BPD awareness can't save relationships and doesn't mean changed behaviour (spelling Canadian now :) When a person with BPD has intellectual awareness and can ev...

BPD Women Menopause Aging Losing the Currency of Beauty Does perimenopause and menopause in women with BPD cause their BPD to "flare up?" If not recovered and healed prior to perimenopause or menopau...

BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini? A commenter asks how could my BPD Ex be fine in a relationship for 4 years and suddenly be so unstable? Is a person with BPD stab...

Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy Borderlines are not relationship worthy. They lack a self, have no object constancy and have relational and communication deficits. People with BPD feel very u...

BPD Breakup Ghost or Discard Is Not Your Fault BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard is not your fault. People with suspected BPD, diagnosed BPD untreated (or not fully treated) can't stop the ghosting o...

To Heal From BPD Discard Go No Contact BPD relationships begin with idealization. You aren't as seen and it's really not as much about you as it sure feels like. BPD relationships will rupture. Stayi...

BPD Discard - Keeping The Door Open For Contact ? BPD Discard. Been discarded or ghosted and leaving to door open for a BPD Ex to contact you with or with or without responding? Do you want to hear f...

BPD Relationship Rollercoaster Causes Codependent Rumination Need For Closure Blocking Recovery BPD relationship rollercoaster causes Codependent rumination and need for closure to be so strong that ...