Videos

Tuesday, April 1, 2025 BPD Punishment and Revenge Is No Win For Codependents

BPD Punishment and Revenge Is No Win For Codependents BPD Punishment and revenge is no win for Codependents. BPD punishment and revenge happens often, in many different ways, within relationships, as...

Tuesday, April 1, 2025 Codependents Escape the BPD Idealization Trap: Heal from Cluster B Abuse

Discover how to break free from the idealization trap and heal from cluster B abuse. This short and its related video explores codependency, clarifies misconceptions about BPD relationship endings, an...

Tuesday, April 1, 2025 BPD Ghost or Discard Not Codependent's Fault

Understanding Codependency and BPD: On this short and related video I explain the survival mode of untreated BPD, the misconception of central roles in relationships, and the fantasy levels in codepen...

Monday, March 31, 2025 BPD Relationship Recycling No Re-Idealization Faster Cycles To Discard

Understanding the cycles of re-idealization and devaluation in relationships with someone with BPD and in relationship recycling. I explore the why cycles speed up and shorten, the lack of logic invol...

Monday, March 31, 2025 Codependents Are Masterfully Manipulated by Borderlines

Uncover the painful realities of manipulation and codependency in relationships with BPD individuals. This short explores personal experiences, offering insights into unhealthy relationship dynamics a...

Monday, March 31, 2025 Vilifying people with BPD or a BPD Ex Hurts YOU More

This short explores the harmful effects of vilifying individuals with BPD. We delve into personal struggles and examine how this mindset impacts those hurt by someone with BPD. ajmahari.ca/sessions...

Monday, March 31, 2025 Do People with BPD have Evil Intelligence?

Uncover the truth about evil intelligence and personality disorders! I explore the complexities of BPD, debunking myths and analyzing projection in relationships. Learn how to identify unhealthy patte...

Monday, March 31, 2025 Why Borderlines Cheat & Blame You

Exploring the complexities of blame, emotional struggles, fantasy bonds, and codependency in BPD relationships. ajmahari.ca/sessions I delve into how individuals with BPD externalize blame and the ...

Monday, March 31, 2025 BPD Betrayal Bond Introjected

Uncover the pain of an introjected BPD betrayal bond. This short explores emotional healing, navigating mind-bending narratives, and letting go of harmful narratives. Discover how to heal from emotio...

Monday, March 31, 2025 BPD Idealization & Codependent Suggestibility

Uncover the hidden link between BPD idealization and Codependent suggestibility, and childhood wounds. This insightful short explores emotional hunger, the impact of past betrayals, and the path towar...

Monday, March 31, 2025 BPD Abandonment Fear Trust Issues & Projection

I explore how individuals with BPD navigate trust and emotional projections, creating misunderstandings in relationships. Discover how these feelings manifest and affect communication with partners,...

Monday, March 31, 2025 BPD Push-Pull Dynamics

Exploring the complex emotional landscape of Borderline Personality Disorder, we delve into the struggles of self-awareness and the push-pull behavior that complicates relationships. Discover the root...