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Monday, April 19, 2021 BPD & Mental Health Challenges Mother's Day Movie Writer Director Travis Carlson Interview

BPD & Mental Health Challenges "Mother's Day" Writer Director Travis Carlson Interview. Travis Carlson talks about his movie and his experiences with ...

Thursday, April 15, 2021 BPD Mother Adult Child Codependent Independent Movie Must See Interview Coming and More on The Movie

BPD Mother Codependent Son and the pain in between Independent Movie All Will Relate to "Mother's Day" and his experience. A son trying to help his mo...

Friday, April 9, 2021 BPD Relationship Dynamics with Codependents Projection and Introjection

BPD Relationship Dynamics with Codependents Projection and Introjection is explained more in depth and A.J. Mahari has a course coming that goes even ...

Tuesday, March 30, 2021 Borderline Communication Impossibility

It is next to impossible to communicate with a person with untreated BPD in any and all attempts to seek closure and reparation of any BPD Episode. BP...

Saturday, March 20, 2021 BPD Breakup Codependency Trauma Bond Not Caused or Resolved By Focusing on Attachment Styles

A commenter on a video on my Youtube Channel (as a few have recently) asked about Attachment Style vs Codependency. It is Codependent denial to think ...

Sunday, March 7, 2021 BPD Relationship Breakups and Recycling 5 Reasons

Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup means not re-cycling the relationships one or more times as many people do. 5 Reasons why BPD Ex's re-cycle back ...

Sunday, March 7, 2021 BPD Breakup Codependent Protective Patterns Inhibit Recovery

BPD Breakups Codependent Protective Patterns Inhibit Your Recovery - From a Live Stream on A.J. Mahari's Youtube Channel. Codependency recovery is pa...

Sunday, March 7, 2021 Borderlines Playing the Victim Are Borderlines Professional Victims

Do Borderlines play the victim? Are Borderlines professional victims. Where that victim mentality comes from and how it more often than not is an unco...

Sunday, February 14, 2021 BPD and Codependency defined and explained

Understanding BPD and a definition of Codependency that helps people understand the trauma bonds of these unhealthy relationships. Why people with Cod...

Saturday, February 6, 2021 Borderline Magical Thinking Explained

Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari explains Borderline Magical Thinking

Sunday, January 31, 2021 Borderline Behavior and Abuse No Shared Objective Reality

Why do people with Borderline Personality especially untreated behave like they often due, abuse you, not ever take responsibility for that. Another r...

Saturday, December 26, 2020 BPD Ex's Codependents Needing Next Relationship after BPD Without Recovery Not Healthy

Too many BPD Ex's Codependents Need To Rush To Next Relationship Before Recovery which is not healthy, practical or wise. It is often many people with...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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