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Wednesday, August 24, 2022 Borderline "Love" Why It Just Ends

Borderline "Love" Why it Just Ends - A.J. Mahari explains why those for loved ones or Ex's of someone with Borderline Personality why their love can j...

Sunday, August 21, 2022 Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't Stay In Treatment

Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't They Stay In Treatment and what this means for you and relationships.

Friday, August 19, 2022 BPD Breakup Extreme Pain Of No Contact

Extreme Pain of No Contact after a BPD Relationship Breakup - How to survive it by getting help to heal a nd not by trying to endure it. No contact is...

Saturday, August 13, 2022 Narcissistic Abuse Codependency is Not The Flip Side of Pathological Narcissism in NPD

Narcissistic Abuse - Healing from BPD or NPD AbuseCodependency is Not The Flip Side of Pathological Narcissism in NPD. A.J. Mahari discusses why peopl...

Saturday, August 6, 2022 BPD NPD Relationships - What is Limerence? 12 Signs & 5 Traits - Codependency & Limerence

BPD NPD Relationships What is Limerence 12 Signs 5 Traits Codependents Limerence Triggered by a Borderline or a Narcissist. AJ Mahari focuses the defi...

Sunday, July 24, 2022 BPD Breakup Will BPD Ex Come Back? The Uncertainty and Fear of No Contact

BPD Breakup Will BPD Ex Come Back The Uncertainty and Fear of No Contact - A.J. Mahari provides in depth insight into the longing seemingly endless fo...

Saturday, July 2, 2022 BPD Breakup Men The "Man Up Be Tough" Has Nothing To Do With Breakup and Will Not Win Back BPD Ex

BPD Breakup Men The Man Up Be Tough Message Has Nothing To Do With the Breakup and Will Not Win The BPD Woman Back - Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Co...

Sunday, May 8, 2022 Borderline Projective Identification and Codependent Introjection Trauma Bond Dynamics

Borderline Projective Identification and the effects it has on loved ones, parnters, Ex's of those with BPD. Codependent introjection of Borderline Pr...

Sunday, May 8, 2022 Loving a Borderline Can You Keep Or Make a Borderline Happy

Can you keep a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder Happy or Make them Happy or is this Codependent denial?

Wednesday, March 16, 2022 BPD Breakup & Codependent Rumination

BPD Breakups Leave Ex's wondering if the BPD Ex will find someone better and be happy with them. Rumination is pervasive very common and extremely pai...

Thursday, February 3, 2022 Borderline Abuse of Partners

Borderline Abuse of partners is significant and traumatizing. Both men and women with BPD abuse their partners. Many who are in relationships with som...

Thursday, February 3, 2022 Pt 3 of 3 Loving a Borderline Is Impossible

Part 3 of 3 Loving an untreated person with Borderline Personality is impossible. The inequity and injustice men experience when a marriage with a bo...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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