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Thursday, September 21, 2023 BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting

BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD GhostingA commenter on my Youtube channel asked if BPD silent treatment is the same as BPD ghosting or similar or are they...

Sunday, September 17, 2023 Trauma Bonding With a Borderline - What Codependnets Need To Know

Trauma Bonding With a Borderline - What Codependents Need To KnowBetrayal or trauma bonding with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder is how t...

Friday, September 15, 2023 BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster

BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination Get Off The BPD RollercoasterBPD idealization is the beginning of the intense fast-paced...

Tuesday, September 12, 2023 Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection

Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection Borderline and Codependent dance of impossible connection comes together from the wounded ch...

Saturday, September 9, 2023 Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want - Get It (You) Then Don't Want It (You) Anymore & Why This Is

Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want - Get It (You) Then Don't Want It (You) Anymore & Why this IsBorderlines want what (who) they want until the...

Friday, September 1, 2023 BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles "Get-Away Closer" BPD Push/Pull

BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles - "Get-Away Closer" BPD Push/PullBPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core rel...

Sunday, August 27, 2023 Can You Reach Out to a BPD Ex To Help Them In Repeated Failed Attempts To Have the Impossible Conversation?

Can You Reach Out to a BPD Ex To Help Them In Repeated Failed Attempts To Have the Impossible Conversation?In response to a comment left on my Youtube...

Wednesday, August 23, 2023 7 Signs Your Loved One Has Borderline Personality That You Experience

7 Signs Your Loved One Has Borderline Personality That You Experience7 Signs that your love one, in any relationship type, has Borderline Personality....

Tuesday, August 22, 2023 5 Reasons Why Borderlines Lie - Is There Biology To BPD Lying

5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships - Is There Biology To BPD Lying?5 reasons (Root Causes) that explains why people with BPD lie. Peo...

Saturday, August 19, 2023 Borderlines are Drowning Emotionally Want Your Ex Back You May Drown In the Relation-SHIP

Borderlines are Drowning Emotionally Go *No Contact* Don't Drown With The Relation - SHIPBorderlines (untreated) are drowning emotionally go no contac...

Tuesday, August 8, 2023 Borderline Inner Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons Why

Borderline Inward Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons WhyThe inward focus of people with Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of why you reall...

Monday, August 7, 2023 What Do Borderlines Need? 9 Red Flags You Can't Help Them & Why You Will Be Punished For Caring

What Do Borderlines Need? 9 Red Flags You Can't Help Them & Why You Will Be Punished For CaringPeope with Patterns of BPD or diagnosed and not ext...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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