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Sunday, April 16, 2023 BPD Breakup and The Mother Wound - 7 Impacting Consequences For Men with Codependency

BPD Breakup and The Mother Wound - 7 Impacting Consequences For Men with CodependencyMost men in a relationship with a girlfriend or wife with Borderl...

Monday, April 10, 2023 Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right Fighting - They Can't Handle The Truth

Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right-Fighting - They Can't Handle The TruthThe victim narrative of so many with Borderline Personality Disorder contin...

Sunday, March 26, 2023 BPD Breakup Getting Your Ex Back - Dream Come True or Nightmare Revisited

BPD Breakup Getting Your Ex Back - Dream Come True or Nightmare Revisited? BPD Relationship breakup and recycling of relationships getting your BPD Ex...

Sunday, March 19, 2023 BPD Risky Sexual Behavior and Impulsivity

Borderline Risky Sexual behavior and bpd impulsivity is a central and core part of BPD for many but now all. Impulsivity acted out through risky sexua...

Monday, March 6, 2023 Borderlines Always Know What They Are Doing? Codependent Logical Fallacies and Biases.

Borderlines Always Know What They Are Doing Codependents Logical Fallacies and Biases will help you to be more consciously aware of how much and why y...

Saturday, March 4, 2023 Borderline Red Herring Fallacy

The Borderline Red Herring Fallacy is experienced by anyone close to a person with Borderline Personality. Especially BPD partners, on/off recycling r...

Sunday, February 26, 2023 BPD Relationship Impossibility in Polyamory or Monogamy

BPD relationship impossibility exists in the dynamics of polyamory or monogamy.People with all the patterns of BPD undiagnosed, or diagnosed both grou...

Saturday, February 25, 2023 BPD Ex Diagnosed or Not Codependent Focus Wanting Your Ex Back

A.J. Mahari responds to a Youtube viewers comments on a Youtube Video and talks aboutand explains the reality that people don't need to know if someon...

Friday, February 10, 2023 BPD Girlfriend Want Space - Slow Split to Devaluation and Ghosting Now what

BPD Girlfriend Wants Space - Slow Split to Devaluation and Ghosting - Now what?When a BPD girlfriend or BPD Boyfriend wants space it is a slow split t...

Saturday, February 4, 2023 Understanding BPD to A Point Facilitates Codependent Recovery & Building a Bridg

There is a plethora of misinformation out there that isn't going to help the vast majoirty of you at all.Are you continuing to focus on the person wit...

Saturday, February 4, 2023 Borderlines Are Not Capable of Loving You

People with Borderline Personality Disorder uhtreated or not successfullytreated cannot, will not, do not and have not loved you. People with BPDdo no...

Thursday, February 2, 2023 BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Are Never Going To Change A Borderline - End The Breakup Cycles

How to achieve Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup that is actually the end of therelationship and the breakup. How and why endless focus on is the B...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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