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Friday, January 27, 2023 Borderlines or Narcissists Do Not Cause Situational Narcissism in Codependents

Borderlines or narcissists do not cause or create situational (or "Temporary") Narcissism or "acquired narcissism" in people with Codependency. To sug...

Tuesday, January 17, 2023 Malignant Borderline as if Psychopathic vs BPD | 8 Traits & 4 C's of Differentiation

Malignant Borderline is a meaningless term. An internet term not a clinical term.It is now being forwarded online as slippery language for (supposedly...

Tuesday, January 17, 2023 Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD

A response and my understanding or this "psychopathy" or "secondary psychopathy"co-mingled with BPD and really not in a meaningful way. I responsd ro ...

Friday, December 23, 2022 BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go From Limbo To End Of Breakup Cycles

BPD Breakup that doesn't seem to have an end in sight. What is the BPD Final Discard? Is there such a thing as a BPD final discard? How to go fromthis...

Sunday, December 18, 2022 Extrem Focus on BPD Ex Increases Distress Drives More Focus On Ex - Dangerous and Painful

For most people after being ghosted or discarded by a Borderline or Narcissist Exrumination is central and very painful. For those also with Limerence...

Sunday, December 18, 2022 BPD Hoovers Are About The Borderline Not You

BPD hoovers are about the borderline - not you. People with Borderline Personalitydo not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as...

Sunday, December 18, 2022 Borderline Emotional and Communication Deficits 7 Signs You Are Relating to a Borderline

7 Signs that you are relating to a person with Borderline Personality who may not bediagnosed or if diagnosed hasn't disclosed that to you. These 7 si...

Sunday, December 18, 2022 Borderline and Codependent Denial - The BPD "We" & The Codependent "They"

Borderlines and Codependents both have considerable denial. It's not manifested in each groups lives the exact same way yet it underpins a lot of this...

Thursday, December 15, 2022 BPD Ghost Discard & Hoovers Are Not About You

The relational impossibility with people with Borderline Personality Disorder is about them - NOT YOU! It's time to respect yourself, get into therapy...

Saturday, December 10, 2022 BPD or NPD Relationship Breakups The First Step to Surviving & Recovery

BPD or NPD relationship breakups. The first step to surviving and transitioning to anactive recovery process begins with a rationally known final Brea...

Wednesday, December 7, 2022 BPD Relationships Are No Win

BPD relationships are no win relationships for those with BPD and for those who try so hard to love them. They are about control struggle two-way dyna...

Wednesday, December 7, 2022 BPD Triggers Not Your Responsibility Do Borderlines Make You Feel How You Feel?

BPD triggers are real but others closest to a person with BPD do not cause their triggers. You are not responsible for how they feel. And, Borderlines...

Reviews

on 10/27/2024

I left my (1 yr. ago diagnosed, untreated) BPD partner of 5 years (3+breakups) for the final time. I have been struggling for understanding, information, and help with what I have been going thru, how...

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on 5/30/2024

This podcast, you sharing your experiences and knowledge has helped me so much, tremendous. Thank You.

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on 3/27/2024

In the aftermath of a devastating relationship and messy breakup, I stumbled across AJ’s podcast. I had suspected my ex had BPD and that I had some flaws that made me susceptible to BPD manipulation. ...

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on 1/16/2024

I came to this in the middle of a break up. I couldn’t describe my experience more clearly. I am in therapy for my codependency and I NEVER went back!

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on 1/6/2024

And her truth is spot on. This podcast helped me more than I had ever expected. She consistently redirects the focus of the codependent while lending understanding to the dynamic and behaviors of both...

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on 10/1/2023

She is spot-on with the BPD torment experienced by the partner.

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on 9/12/2023

I finally found a resource that mirrored exactly what I’m going through currently with my BPD partner and it has saved my sanity and validated all of what I’m feeling and experiencing. Thank you AJ!

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on 8/10/2023

Love how direct this podcast is. Its so true and straight to the point. Thank you for helping me move on.

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on 6/11/2023

This is a little dense, maybe just for me. A lot of content to process I felt like this is an analysis of a scene out of my family room and endless iterations with my wife of 35 years Understanding ...

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on 6/6/2023

You helped me move on from my bpd ex who broke my heart, manipulated m, gaslighted me, hurt me. I had the worst relationship in my life with-him. Thank you so much Aj.

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on 7/12/2022

Amazing. Straight to the point. You reaffirmed all my thoughts about my ex and his BPD…. Thank you for the closure I didn’t know I needed x

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on 7/4/2022

This podcast has been helpful. I don’t feel alone anymore. I’m just starting my journey to self . I’m scared but look forward to learning from AJ Mahari

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on 7/6/2021

This podcast has been the catalyst to much needed inner healing that I have been unaware of for a long time. Thank you for helping me

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on 2/11/2021

The host is amazingly knowledgeable about borderline. I’ve been married to a borderline wife for 21 years and I am a bit of a codependent. EVERYTHING she says in EVERY episode so far has resonated wit...

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on 2/10/2021

I specifically searched for borderline break ups because the last year of my life has essentially been everything described in this podcast .It was with a man who turned on me on a dime for no reason ...

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